4. Make it a (consensual!!) surprise. A huge benefit of a hand job is that it can be done sneakily. We are not condoning or encouraging doing handies in public places, but if you wanted to get a HJ going while you’re sitting side-by-side on the couch, watching a movie, that would be good and acceptable.

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5. It’s all mental. Jacqui Oliver, fun88 a psycho-sexual relationship consultant, says to get your guy started by getting him to imagine the hot and heavy stuff that’s about to go down. Don’t be afraid to talk dirty! Getting into the right mind-set can turn second base from a pit stop on the way to sex to the actual destination.

6. Hold him steady. Oliver says to make a "V" shape with your thumb and pointer finger to support the base of his penis and adding slight downward pressure. This holds his penis in place as he becomes erect so it doesn’t "bounce" around too much.

7. Stretch it out. Apply some lube in your other hand, and slowly stretch out the length of his penis with your other hand (your thumb should be pointing down towards his balls). Once your lubed hand nears the top of his penis, fun88 you can bring your support hand fun88 up and repeat the same slow stretch. Repeat until you’re both impressed by your hand dexterity.